Happy Hometown Marriage Education Kit

shutterstock_1224038The Happy Hometown Marriage Education Kit is a five year program that begins with one person and ends with Marriage Education becoming an integral part of local budgets and staff job descriptions. It provides a simple step-by-step structure for making marriage education a part of small town culture.

The Happy Hometown Marriage Education Kit is specifically aimed for communities with a population of 50,000 or less. It begins with descriptions of small town culture and their influence on Marriage Education.  It then provides resources and a structure for moving your hometown to a town that strengthens home.   This structure includes strategies and information about resources to:

  • Awareness activities to get started
  • Warm-up activities to get community leaders on board
  • Expansion projects to develop a solid community base
  • Skills programs to provide solid changes in couples lives
  • Ongoing supports for couples with particular needs
  • Strategies for helping communities make long term commitments to marriage education
  • Leadership development to make all your work last

Generally, the goal is to connect existing people, organizations, and interests with marriage strengthening resources so that marriage education becomes a part of the culture.

The Happy Hometown Marriage Education Kit was given away at the 2009 Smart Marriages Conference in Orlando.  It may be purchased from I-Ky for $15.  To order one, contact admin@skillswork.org.

From the Happy Hometown Marriage Education Kit comes the Happy Hometown Model:

Happy Hometown Model

Marriage and Family Focus:

  1. Vision—Images of strong, committed marriages and families
  2. Skills—Teaching emotional and relationship skills
  3. Support—Communities who celebrate and shore up caring families
  4. Leadership—Identification and development of leaders

Tasks to Make Marriage and Family Strengthening a Part of Everyday Culture:

A-Awareness—Presentations, media, and word-of-mouth

E-Events—Activities

I:  Information—Research information; quality skills training

O-Organization—Who provides what, when, where, and how

U-Understanding—Match programs with perceived needs and values

Promising Sources of Sustainable Funding

  1. Affordable fee for service, combined with marketing to make a relationship class as attractive as dinner out or a week-end away
  2. Line item in church or agency budgets
  3. Line item in job descriptions of people who are already paid
  4. Relationship Education wherever education occurs (schools, churches, community ed)
  5. A structure that combines a very few paid administrators with a small number of highly committed, well trained volunteers and a large number of transitory volunteers (like Girl Scouts) with an in-house source of funding for those administrators (like Girl Scout cookies).
  6. Local public funding (United Way, local fundraising events)
  7. Like Parenting Education, a possible component in many state or federal grants
  8. Private Foundation funding for special projects
  9. 1% or other designated federal funding
  10. EAP, Wellness, CE, staff development, and Insurance Programs

Work on developing these strategies in your community!

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More information: call Mary Ortwein at 502-227-0055

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